Families

I have grown up in a blended family and have raised one, so I do understand the ups and downs of life as both a parent and a child. I have the ability to understand what is happening in families through my training and personal experience.

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Family's are like a microcosm and when one member of the family is 'out of kilter', this affects the entire unit.  When more than one family member is running on 'low,' this can prevent the smooth running of a household. Communication is an area we will explore in depth.  Everyone is so busy these days with work/school, running a busy household including housework, homework, shopping, cooking, after school activities, yardwork and looking after pets, so, teamwork might be  to allow more'just the ticket' to allow time for fun and play.

We will look for areas around 'triangulation' (this can be potentially unhealthy).  Triangulation means that three people are involved in keeping the balance of two  For instance, sometimes a child will keep the peace between their parents.  The child or young person may not be aware of their involvement, however, it can be exhausting for everyone involved.  We will organise individual counselling so that the parents, and/or child/parent may have additional support.  We will explore the needs of the individuals in the family, and make sure everyone has a 'voice'.

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Family's are magnificent when they are running efficiently.  They offer amazing support, and can be harbors for unconditional love. Experiencing joy and fulfillment for all members of the family, and extended family unit can be a life time dream for some.  At the end of our lives, I imagine 'we' will embrace thoughts around the love we gave, and received. Family counselling just might be the investment you are needing to protect the future for not only you, but everyone.